Part 2: Books Worth Reading: Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation and Guilt to Manipulate You by Susan Forward, Ph.D.

The Inner World of the Blackmailer
It Takes Two
A Special Word on Women and Self-Doubt
Emotional Blackmail and Integrity 
We always have a choice - we can avoid the FOG
What is the strategy?  How do you change the power balance?  
Cut through the FOG!